Story : This Girl is NOT ASHAMED of Being a Woman!!!
India is a country where discrimination against women has been a common practice down the years. Women were considered inferior to men in every way, they weren’t given education, and were oppressed and harassed. Women who were on their periods were considered unholy, cursed and untouchable, and were not allowed to even enter places of religious worship. The reason for all this? Being a woman. Disgraceful practices were prevalent in India, and still continue in some parts of the country. This story shared by Anushka Dasgupta shows how this modern Indian girl refused to be ashamed of the fact that she is a woman and that she goes through her periods. Read on :
“I came home today at four minutes past nine after a long walk, a metro journey and a 10 minute bus ride.
There’s nothing unusual about my evening except for the fact that multiple women walked up to me on my way home and asked me to pull my tee shirt down, most men ogled, all the kids I met didn’t notice/care. I came to know why I was the centre of attention for the better of my journey when a woman (well meaning, I’m sure) offered me a sanitary napkin. I had stained my pants.
So here I was, well past eight, standing alone at Esplanade with a massive red stain across my butt and a rather artistic red dot under the zipper of my pants.
This post is for all the women who offered to help me hide my womanhood, I AM NOT ASHAMED. I bleed every 28-35 days, it is painful at times, I get moody at times, but I walk into the kitchen and get myself some chocolate biscuits and I’m good to go for the next eight hours come hell or high water because I AM NOT ASHAMED.
This post is for all the men who ogled at me today, I AM NOT ASHAMED. Check out the big red blotch on my pants all you want, check out my butt, check out the way I move, come touch me if you dare, and I will show you that I AM NOT ASHAMED. I will take out a sanitary napkin and show you how it works while you can teach me how to pee in public (because clearly you’re not ashamed, and neither am I).
To all the children who didn’t give a damn, DO NOT BE ASHAMED. There will be many bloodstains on pants, on skirts, on bedsheets, on cushion covers, on chairs, on tables, against the wall, and on the battlefield where YOU fight the stigma by NOT BEING ASHAMED. Do not whisper when you utter the word “PERIODS”, do not subtly offer a woman a sanitary napkin, or a fresh change of clothes. ASK her if she needs one, TELL her she has stained her clothes, DO NOT HELP HER HIDE IT.
I AM NOT ASHAMED.
I AM NOT ON MY *period*.
I AM ON MY PERIOD.”
This inspiring story should motivate the current generation of Indian girls and women, as well as women of all ages from around the globe, to stand up for who they are, and not be ashamed of being a woman. There is no reason to be ashamed of our bodies or bodily functions. Furthermore, the importance that women have in our lives and in our societies is a fact that cannot be ignored by any of us. Therefore, let us respect women, and join hands in making sure that they are given their due importance and respect in our society, and throughout the world.